Why do ppl want to be loved & want to find someone to love?
What if that person does not appear when u start to age and you feel like needing someone desperately by your side?
You see many ppl around you start to have a relationship or already in a relationship. Ppl around you start to question you: why are you still single? may be out of concern? curiosity?
All these factors make you think is there something wrong with me? You start lacking of confidence? Some even start to become like wolf desperately searching for a prey?
Well, i am already 21yo, going 22, never been in a relationship. I also have friends around me who have great personality but also single since birth. What make us like that? What's wrong being single?
I have thoughts of desperation before, fortunately i pull myself up real quick. Since young, i dreamt of starting my first relationship that can last until the end and i want to continue to have that dream or at least start a relationship that will make both feel that we were meant to be. The song "dui de ren" best describes my thought towards love for now. Hope that the song can encourage others who are in the same situation i am in =)..
你問在我心中 是否還苦惱
那次受傷 否決了愛的好
謝謝你的關照 我一切都好
一個人 不算困擾
愛雖然 很美妙
卻不能為了寂寞
又陷了泥沼
愛要耐心等待 仔細尋找
感覺很重要
寧可空白了手 等候一次
真心的擁抱
我相信在這個世界上
一定會遇到
對的人出現 在眼角
那次流過的淚
讓我學習到
如何祝福 如何轉身不要
在眼淚體會到 與自己擁抱
愛不是一種需要 是一種對照
能願意為了一份愛
付出去多少
然後得到多少並不計較
當我想清楚了時候
我就算已經準備好
放手去愛 海闊天高
